For all the people who survived a heartache.. help me to..?

its going to be hard. extremly hard. and i dont know if i can really help you but you need to realize tht he was not right for you. realize tht you deserve better then that and that you want something more in your life. hes not ready to settle down yet and you are. i know you loved him. you wouldnt have stayed with him for three years if you didnt ove him but just try to move on in your life. find someone new. he might just be a rebound but at least it will take your mind off of this other guy for a lil bit. remember you deserve better then this and you will get better then this but its jst going to take time. i feel for you. i understand the pain and heartache you are going through but just remember that soo it will get better. untill then hang in there and good luck!!