If life is handing you lemons, pls answer my question...?

The thing about everything is you have a choice as to what you make out of it. Astrology can give you the yin and yang of every aspect but its your choice to make the best of your positives or to exploit them and the negatives you can choose to rise to the challenge and overcome whats inside or you can give into it and let it drag you down further until your in negative places that create even more stress in your life. Everything can be used as a stepping stone to growth in your soul.